“Anak, may paraan para landiin without looking like you’re auditioning for a teleserye.” – Tita Chika

1. Huwag kang pa-fall kung hindi ka rin mahuhulog.

Let’s get this straight: If you’re just bored, go drink milk tea—not people’s emotions. Flirting is fun, yes, pero may consent and clarity. Be upfront (but not creepy) and know your intentions.

Tita Tip: Test the waters—drop a funny line or react sa story. Pero kung hindi sila responsive, stop na bes, ‘wag mo nang gawin thesis defense ang pag-‘Hi’.

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2. Make them laugh, not cringe.

Memes? ✅
Weird pick-up lines from 2010? ❌

Humor is the love language. If your crush laughs at your jokes (kahit corny), malamang may something. If not—baka friendly lang talaga.

Tita Tip: Avoid oversharing. Save your trauma dump for real convos, not DMs on Day 1.

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3. Misteryosa beats clingy—every. single. time.

Don't reply in 0.2 seconds. Don’t double text. Let the convo breathe, anak. Mystery is magnetic.

Tita Reminder: Kahit Tita Chika, hindi 24/7 available. Neither should you be.

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4. Body language is louder than your emojis.

When you’re vibing IRL, notice their posture, their eye contact. Mirror their energy—but don’t be a chameleon. Be your quirky, confident self.

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5. If they’re not into you, move on with grace (and a fresh blowout).

No bitterness, just better. If someone’s not interested, it’s not a failure—it’s a filter. Trust that your person will match your energy without playing games.

Tita Quote of the Day: “Don’t chase. Attract. You are the prize, not the free trial.”

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